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I am reading some of the posts and although a good percentage appears to be genuine, I feel some are fake. My question is, how to know the genuine from the fake posts

The more you read, the more you’ll figure out.

I will say, life’s a crazy thing and sometimes what you assume is so outlandish it couldn’t possibly be real, is in fact real.

But, spend enough time here and you can filter pretty well…. And even fake posts sometimes have value in them.

I don't worry about it... Cuckolding is such a mental thing, and even the "real" experience is very imagination driven. When I have had "real" encounters, I am usually not there, so I am sitting and imagining it. When my wife is late getting home, I am imagining it. When my wife dissapears at a party, I am imagining it.

My wife sometimes hides things, and sometimes makes up things, and sometimes just likes to keep me guessing. Learn to roll with it and enjoy the uncertainty.

When someone posts a fake or exagerated story, they are letting you in on what turns them on. You can enjoy it whether it is true or not. Just enjoy the moment :-)

Unless you are watching or eating the creampie, you never know for sure!

parklife wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 23, 2024 9:28 am

The more you read, the more you’ll figure out.

But, spend enough time here and you can filter pretty well….

It’s also excellent practice for divining the edges of truth and falsehood when filtering candidates for playmates!

Well, you said yourself: you can feel it. Some don't care and just enjoy the stories/stolen pics. Me, I don't find fiction exciting, the way real stories (especially wannabes on the brink) can be.

A quick checklist for fake stories:

• It moves quickly, possibly from wannabe to wanton slut in a few short weeks (I swear, ours was real!), BBCs and gangbangs, and usually progressively exciting weekly adventures at minimum.
• There's often a rotating cast of characters and a bit of drama to keep people riveted. It reads like a story.
• The sex is always awesome, the guys are always studs, and the dicks are always big. Everyone goes bareback and there are creampies galore, and no STIs.
• If it's the cuckold forum (the most common place to find fiction) it will usually hit on some of the popular themes there: denial, humiliation, pregnancy danger, etc.
• It's been noted that the stories sometimes seem driven by the comments (something someone suggested as an exciting possibility, happens)
• They rarely - if ever - meet men online, the way real people do. It just starts raining men, and she fucks them all.

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I like the posts that at least seem real, whether they are true or not. I usually stop reading as soon as it includes a BBC, huge penis or where a supposedly straight guy suddenly enjoys sucking a cock or anal, I think a lot of these would be better suited to a gay site as the enjoyment seems to be with the other man not the wife.

Also sex that goes on for hours or with many men. Maybe my wife is different, but 4 times in a short time between me and a boyfriend usually makes her too sore for more.

I seriously don’t agree with the comment about it not being real if she doesn’t meet men on line. My wife insisted on meeting men naturally in everyday situations where she got chatted up. She obviously missed a lot of opportunities, but it’s what she wanted.

annsman wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 23, 2024 12:56 pm

I seriously don’t agree with the comment about it not being real if she doesn’t meet men on line. My wife insisted on meeting men naturally in everyday situations where she got chatted up. She obviously missed a lot of opportunities, but it’s what she wanted.

Yeah, I could've phrased that better. I know plenty of hotwives only play with men they meet IRL (OHW's own Farmgirl, for example). My intention with that list was just to say these are common themes in the threads that I assume are fiction. They usually tick several of these boxes.

Their timeline looks something like.

1. Short intro about being married to a nearly vergin woman who has a rock'n porn-star body under her Nun's Habit. Within which the OP will state "Over the last year I've been obsessed with her having sex with other men, should I tell her my fantasy?"

2. Confesses fantasetly within days, sometimes hours of first post "I brought it up yesterday in the car, it went really well! She told me she always had a crush on (insert inappropriate and unimaginable choice for bull) and agrees to flirt with him the next time they are alone"

There's always some event 2 weeks out at the most where she's is going to be away from hubby, drinking, and staying the the same Hotel as the potential bull.

3. Usually a few days later "omg guys huge update, my wife surprised me, 'guess she couldnt wait 2 weeks!' I was worried because she Is late getting home from girl's night , I was just about to call her, when i get a text from an unknown number; I open it up and find a video of my wife with a 10 inch bbc in her mouth. Guess she was at the bar with her friends and a 6 foot 7, multi-millionaire and his equally rich,tall,endowed, and swxually assertive friends started hitting on them. Her best friend is getting spitroasted by three 9 inch bbcs in the same room. This is so hot"

Fast forward a couple days, the wife is bbc owned and free use to her "daddy" and his group of big dicked, rich, underlings. Usually soon after, OP starts to abandon all moderation with stories of unprotected sex with strangers, gangbangs, hardcore domination, and how the family is now involved. Mind you she's already this unfiltered, bold, and aggressive/liberated slut, all in a matter of weeks. But with all that unabashed sluttyness they HAVE ABSOLUTELY REFUSED to post any pictures or videos, they are way too afraid of being outted. Granted, they are apparently banging everyone all of the cucks coworkers/boss and all the adult male family memberds, as well as the most cracking tinder in whatever small town they claim to live.

And if course everyone OP interracts with is somehow tied to tge lifestyle. Dad's a cuck, mom has a bbc bull and never touches dad now. Grandma was a cuckcake and is teaching the wife how to be submissive to her bulls wife.

It's all real though, just trust him bro.

Sounds too good to be true? Skill issue.

Love all of the replies, lol all of them are spot on! After being in the OHWs since 2003-04 since the original board, and since the very beginning of this one, I have really learned to differentiate the bogus and the real stuff although sometimes the fake stuff can really pass off as real.

I wonder how many people here have come across my posts and immediately labeled them as fake? Even though I've never full-on made a dedicated thread about my experience with the ex, I am certain that many have felt my experiences are extreme so I don't blame anyone for thinking that, if they do.

Anyway, just keep reading.. it'll begin to come naturally to you. The lifestyle does not happen in a matter of weeks, let alone overnight. Some of the stories you read are essentially a scripted porn scene or erotica story, enjoy them for what they are but know it doesn't happen that way in real life unless you have a seasoned cuckoldress as a new girlfriend.

leggysman wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 23, 2024 9:58 am

Well, you said yourself: you can feel it. Some don't care and just enjoy the stories/stolen pics. Me, I don't find fiction exciting, the way real stories (especially wannabes on the brink) can be.

A quick checklist for fake stories:

• It moves quickly, possibly from wannabe to wanton slut in a few short weeks (I swear, ours was real!), BBCs and gangbangs, and usually progressively exciting weekly adventures at minimum.
• There's often a rotating cast of characters and a bit of drama to keep people riveted. It reads like a story.
• The sex is always awesome, the guys are always studs, and the dicks are always big. Everyone goes bareback and there are creampies galore, and no STIs.
• If it's the cuckold forum (the most common place to find fiction) it will usually hit on some of the popular themes there: denial, humiliation, pregnancy danger, etc.
• It's been noted that the stories sometimes seem driven by the comments (something someone suggested as an exciting possibility, happens)
• They rarely - if ever - meet men online, the way real people do. It just starts raining men, and she fucks them all.

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This should be pinned for everyone to read. Great breakdown.

You can kind of tell in how the “stories” go and how they interact with people. It will become obvious over time.

Let's not forget the numerous repeated stories but with different character names and minor changes that exist on here, mostly of the college students who go to different schools and the GF is a slut while away and he becomes a long distance cuck. I feel like I've seen 3 of those nearly identical stories floating around here in the last 5 years

ucaneffher wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 23, 2024 8:08 pm

Let's not forget the numerous repeated stories but with different character names and minor changes that exist on here, mostly of the college students who go to different schools and the GF is a slut while away and he becomes a long distance cuck. I feel like I've seen 3 of those nearly identical stories floating around here in the last 5 years

Or the ones they take from another site and change the names, but miss a couple of name changes in their copy/paste. So a story about 3 people ends up having 5 names.

To me, it’s the level of detail. Too much detail, invariably fake.

Take a look at the threads that are hundreds of pages long and also go back a few years. Those are real. No one can fake it that long. Just to give you and example....

Other signs.....

The OP has just joined the site, and makes his first post in the Cuckold forum..... But that first post says that he is not yet a cuckold. A few posts later and he has now been cuckolded. The OP must have had amazing foresight to post in the Cuck forum.

The story cracks on at an amazing pace, everyone piles in with comments. Things carry on for a week or two, maybe longer. OP runs out of ideas and abruptly stops posting. He joined the site the same day he started posting, and stops logging in on the day of his last post. Probably waits a bit and then starts the process again by registering with a new username.
Meanwhile his original thread dies down, with his acolytes forlornly posting "Any Update?", or just "Bump". Sometimes many months after the last real activity.

The funniest threads are the ones where he is called out for a blatant inconsistency in his story, or it's shown that the pics posted are fakes....and the very next poster makes a comment like "Great update" or "sexy pics, you've got a smokin' hot girlfriend". Either they don't read the other comments, or are in complete denial, not wanting their fave fantasy to be shown as fake.

I don't agree that a long story, conducted over many months, if not years, is unlikely to be fake. I could dissect some long stories and point out the inaccuracies they contain. However, if it's a popular story, pointing out 'problems' usually just gets you abuse. At the end of the day, if I think the story is untrue, then it isn't really my duty to tell everybody else. Besides, the rules actually prevent you from 'calling out'. Which, unfortunately, some people take as freedom to fake it to their hearts content.

In my opinion, the Cuckold forum, in particular, is gradually becoming worse in this respect. Your mileage may vary, as they say.

If only people applied such critical thinking when they listened to Trump...

mfm4bnc wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 8:23 am

If only people applied such critical thinking when they listened to Trump...

Lol good thing this is a wife sharing forum and not a political discussion board, otherwise some of the Trump guys would counter your argument by telling you that Joe Biden's incoherent speech also requires lots of critical thinking just to understand its face value.

I don't identify as one to argue politics or be a sheep for either side and rubbing my views on others (hint hint):, but I think we can both agree that we are FUCKED regardless if we get Kumala or Tramp. The US needs the Salvadorian present to run for our office.

ucaneffher wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 10:13 am

this is a wife sharing forum and not a political discussion board

Yes. I've heard there are places online where you can discuss US politics. Thankfully, this is not that place.

This thread is already OT in the Wannabe forum; should probably be in Feedback or Misc.

ucaneffher wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 10:13 am

mfm4bnc wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 8:23 am

If only people applied such critical thinking when they listened to Trump...

Lol good thing this is a wife sharing forum and not a political discussion board, otherwise some of the Trump guys would counter your argument by telling you that Joe Biden's incoherent speech also requires lots of critical thinking just to understand its face value.

I don't identify as one to argue politics or be a sheep for either side and rubbing my views on others (hint hint):, but I think we can both agree that we are FUCKED regardless if we get Kumala or Tramp. The US needs the Salvadorian present to run for our office.

Still curious that people seem to care more about truth on a fetish site than in politics...

mfm4bnc wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 12:27 pm

ucaneffher wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 10:13 am

mfm4bnc wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 8:23 am

If only people applied such critical thinking when they listened to Trump...

Lol good thing this is a wife sharing forum and not a political discussion board, otherwise some of the Trump guys would counter your argument by telling you that Joe Biden's incoherent speech also requires lots of critical thinking just to understand its face value.

I don't identify as one to argue politics or be a sheep for either side and rubbing my views on others (hint hint):, but I think we can both agree that we are FUCKED regardless if we get Kumala or Tramp. The US needs the Salvadorian present to run for our office.

Still curious that people seem to care more about truth on a fetish site than in politics...

Lol fair enough. Let's just say that some people don't know how to set priorities in life.

Cuckcuckgoose1 wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 23, 2024 10:17 pm

Take a look at the threads that are hundreds of pages long and also go back a few years. Those are real. No one can fake it that long. Just to give you and example....

Exactly. Writing fiction takes a lot of effort. In the beginning the author has a passion to do it, but after a year or so it starts to feel like a burden to them, so a post appears that says "well there's not much more to share... of course she will keep doing guys in the future, but I'm done posting about it. Take care!"

And all the people that believed it for the past year respond, "oh that was so great, please think about posting some more."

mfm4bnc wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 12:27 pm

ucaneffher wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 10:13 am

mfm4bnc wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 24, 2024 8:23 am

If only people applied such critical thinking when they listened to Trump...

Lol good thing this is a wife sharing forum and not a political discussion board, otherwise some of the Trump guys would counter your argument by telling you that Joe Biden's incoherent speech also requires lots of critical thinking just to understand its face value.

I don't identify as one to argue politics or be a sheep for either side and rubbing my views on others (hint hint):, but I think we can both agree that we are FUCKED regardless if we get Kumala or Tramp. The US needs the Salvadorian present to run for our office.

Still curious that people seem to care more about truth on a fetish site than in politics...

M4B
- You must be a Carpenter.
- And the old saying of "The truth is stranger than fiction."

As to the original question on how to tell truth from fiction, I cannot give a better answer as leggysman already did. In the end, it comes down to your personal gut feeling and common sense.

Besides not understanding why some people post entirely made up stories, what puzzles me even more is the high percentage of people not caring whether it´s fact or fiction. It makes me wonder if there are really that many people who prefer a mythical narrative that sounds good but has little or nothing to do with reality, over reality itself.

germancuck-1 wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 25, 2024 2:36 am

Besides not understanding why some people post entirely made up stories....

Attention seeking.
Wanting to have something to contribute (when they feel they have nothing to contribute).
They are fantasists.
They are looking for credibility, adulation, affirmation etc.
They like to write fiction, but feel that the Library section doesn't get enough attention.
Because it gives them a stiffy.

Any, or all of the above, plus others.

germancuck-1 wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 25, 2024 2:36 am

what puzzles me even more is the high percentage of people not caring whether it´s fact or fiction. It makes me wonder if there are really that many people who prefer a mythical narrative that sounds good but has little or nothing to do with reality, over reality itself.

Oh, there are. For definite.

Sorry to drift back to politics a bit, but it's why 'populist' politicians are often successful. Their method is to shout back at people all the prejudices that a certain audience has, regardless of whether they believe those things themselves.

It's the same here..... Tell a story that includes all the popular 'nonsense' and 'myths'.
List of ingredients: BBC, a shrinking cock because it's in chastity or not getting any pussy, 10"+ cock length of the bull, 2" or less cock for the cuck, wives that come home hours later with a pussy dripping with thick creamy cum, etc.

Sure fire crowd pleasers that the poster swears blind is all true, soon to have a band of followers demanding more, and lapping it up, accepting it at face value. It's what they've come here for.

We're all going to hell in a hand cart, wanking all the way there